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5. Some mystery
When you meet the girl at Chat (for example after you find a "theoretcally" nice parter in ICQ Random Chat), try not to talk about yourself all the time. Let her chat , try to know what she likes to do, what her dreams are, be a bit of mysterious; don't say it all on your first date. If you act like a desperate you're going to scare her. Playing hard to get sometimes works a lot! Specially at Chat where many aces are hidden .
6. In the end...
In normal life you must never ask for a kiss, you must reach it. First reason: you would be begging. Second reason: when you are sure that something is going to happen, you don't ask for opinion or permission: you go there and do it! Asking for something is actually asking for permission, because you are not totally sure about it.
At normal Chat or at Web Cam Chat you most try to catch the girl's language signals (eg if she strokes her hair all the time, if she leans toward you, if she smiles often).
You must try to imitate real life rules (at Web Cam Chat is much more easy than at normal
Chat)
On the other hand, try to observe if there is a lack of interest, like crossed arms, short answers (yes, no, maybe, I don't know...), distant eyes as if she was looking for something or somebody else.
7. The day after
Don't call her right away, except if you two had sex the day before and you are willing to carry on with the relationship (in these cases girls are very emotional, you better call her). But if that's not the case, forget it. Wait aren't you? So, let her think about what you are doing right now, if you think of her or not, if you still like her. She will be always thinking of you, missing you... That will put you "in charge".
8. And life goes on...
Remember: never make a woman your top priority. On your list of priorities put your family, friends, work, whatever... first, and then her! For if she knows she's your first concern, she won't have a reason to care about you and eventually there won't be that spark anymore.
If the girl say "I don't have the time" to see/call/go out with you,
remember: there's no such thing as time, but PRIORITIES. You can be on her top priorities list or
not.
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